Judging & True Beauty

so people who know me for the most part know that I be writing and I enjoy writing but I write about different things than most people do...  I try to impact peoples life in a positige manner thru my writing so here we go...
With beauty and the terms similiar to it there is so much more to a person being beautiful. like how can I say this to make people understand it completely?  yes you have the obvious outer looks the shell of a human. what they wear and their face and body type. things like that but as we age that slowly starts to fade. or after having a kid in a woman's case her looks might fade from that but that's really just a shell from where true beauty comes from. true beauty comes from a person's soul and heart. so when looking for your partner don't judge on what you see on the outside so much.  get to know that person so you can truly judge them correctly.  and yes I said judge I wont sit here and say don't judge cause as humans we judge automatically.  we judge even when we call someone cute or pretty or handsome or fine. if you judge someone too quick without knowing them then how can you truly say if they are an ugly person cause we all have our ugly sides so whos to say your beauty is better when you bleed red just like that person? it seems that today in our society judging and beauty go hand in hand if you want people to be nice and caring and have your back and be there for you keep in mind that you have to be the same way with them if they don't judge you then don't judge them and if you don't judge them right away you might see just how beautiful they truly are.
- Jason Matthew Graham