Judging & True Beauty

so people who know me for the most part know that I be writing and I enjoy writing but I write about different things than most people do...  I try to impact peoples life in a positige manner thru my writing so here we go...
With beauty and the terms similiar to it there is so much more to a person being beautiful. like how can I say this to make people understand it completely?  yes you have the obvious outer looks the shell of a human. what they wear and their face and body type. things like that but as we age that slowly starts to fade. or after having a kid in a woman's case her looks might fade from that but that's really just a shell from where true beauty comes from. true beauty comes from a person's soul and heart. so when looking for your partner don't judge on what you see on the outside so much.  get to know that person so you can truly judge them correctly.  and yes I said judge I wont sit here and say don't judge cause as humans we judge automatically.  we judge even when we call someone cute or pretty or handsome or fine. if you judge someone too quick without knowing them then how can you truly say if they are an ugly person cause we all have our ugly sides so whos to say your beauty is better when you bleed red just like that person? it seems that today in our society judging and beauty go hand in hand if you want people to be nice and caring and have your back and be there for you keep in mind that you have to be the same way with them if they don't judge you then don't judge them and if you don't judge them right away you might see just how beautiful they truly are.
- Jason Matthew Graham

WHY

Why do anything at all anymore? I mean when everyone has things that make them feel more pain than they want to more pain than anyone should be feeling at such ages. or the stress i mean dont get me started on that, so why? why get up everyday? why help people out? why be friendly? why smile? why love? even after being hurt so many times? why keep living after being depressed every single day? why have fun when loved ones are dead? well let me ask you this single question: why not? Why not be happy? why not keep looking for someone who will treat you right? why not keep smiling and being happy? when your loved ones would want you too? why not keep living when your dealing with depression? why not just be human for once? we are all human, we are going to feel things we dont want to. we are going to question the existence of our lives, but at the end of the day the one question we need to ask is why not get up tomorrow morning and keep smiling and laughing and loving? we do this out of necessity for human interaction. it is hardwired into our brain to survive and to keep living. so while you want to ask questions start looking for different questions to ask. not everything has to be so negative sometimes all it takes is to think of something in a positive light and you can change your whole day around by being more optimistic. For all those who have been hurt repeatedly in relationship after relationship. instead of asking yourself whats wrong with yourself ask yourself this why not keep trying? not all men are that immature. If you deal with depression instead of asking why are you even still alive, ask yourself why not smile today? why keep questioning everyone else and not even question yourself on how your doing things. all i am saying is to be brave and to rethink whats going on