love

love! what is it ? how do we know if we love someone ? how can we describe what we feel ? all these questions are valid to ask when it comes to love. everyone ha their own opinion on what love is. for me love is not being able to live without that person. its not wanting to move forward in life without them. love isnt something you can measure. its not something you can force. love is a mutual thing. love comes from spending time with that person. love is standing by that person in their hardest battles and helping them fight through them. if you love them you wouldnt leave them at the lowest point. love is lifting that person up when no one else can. love is trusting that person completely and fully. love is not going around accussing them. love is communicating and expressing yourself on how you feel they did something wrong, then helping them fix it. dont get confused on telling them things. your not asking them to change, your asking them to be open and try different approaches toward things. if you love someone you dont ask them to change. love is learning all the small weird and nerdy imperfections of that person and smiling cause you realize how much that person means to you. love has different levels and outputs. people dont choose who they love its a miraculous thing that sparks between two people who see the real person in the other. people will argue with me saying i cant describe love. i cant but i can say what love is to me. i could be 100% wrong, but you dont have to agree with me. this is my opinion on love. love is different for everyone, cause no ones the same. you will love someone for how that person makes you feel, all the things you two have gone through, and what that person has helped you become. when loving someone you may fight and argue but you will talk through it. you dont break that person down, without building them up if you truly love them. to love someone it takes communication, trust, and bonding. thats what love is to me.