Cheating.

whats the point of cheating ? like in all honestly what do you gain from it ? like you have a girl so why do you need another one ? why do you need more why do you have such a high value for lusting after women ? like if your girl is right by your side thru everything why would you put her thru everything that she doesnt needa go thru ? and ik i cheated once never again i saw how it shattered another human being and i just cant live with myself after that kinda shit and i still think bout how no matter what excuse i can think of it still doesnt make it right like i notice alota guys have some extremely gorgeous women and they cheat ? like how can you throw a diamond into a lake and walk back out of it with a rock thats all misshaped and disfigured from all the rounds all the guys have made with her ? why would you go to that girl when you know what shes bout and your girl told you she doesnt want you to talk to her i mean after a while people we have to start growing up after a while your gonna start getting to the age where you wanna settle down with a girl and start a family and turn her into your wife and alota guys dont realize how they have a keeper until its too late how they have a girl who will go thru hell and back with them and still stay by their side and be ready for hell to be over and come out on top of it like is it that hard to swallow your pride and know when your wrong i mean i hate having to admit when im wrong but if its for the better then why not swallow your pride and make shit right ? why not just let it go and accept that your girl is gonna be there for you more than your hoomeboys i mean ik too many guys who snitch a brother out to them to save their own ass but if your girls down and wont do that shit then why trade her for someone who wont even stay around after you all done fucking ? like is this society and generation that fucked up ? or are we just to scared to actually be true men and know when we fucked up and try and move on from the shit ?

Insecurity:

The definition of insecurity is: uncertainty or anxiety about oneself; lack of confidence.

That is one of the many things that teenagers face everyday, down to the simplest things as a guy getting up the courage to talk to a girl or a girl getting up the courage to talk to a guy.  Courage is something that can hurt ones life or help ones life, insecurity is the same way.  You can be insecure about loosing your boyfriend/girlfriend so in return you do everything in your power to keep them, but the catch is for it to work is they have to feel the same way and be the same way.  People think that insecurity is an ugly thing and something that is bad but even insecurity has beauty to it too.  The beauty in it is how you have so many fears and problems "insecurities" and you know that you do and you can accept them you can face them and make them known, you recognize them, you work on them, and you fight them daily.  You make people feel wanted, you make people feel loved, you make people know that you can't go a day without them.  Insecurity among the many problems people have with themselves has beauty along with many wonders if you can get over it.  It's not going to be easy but with the right person you can do it, and when you do things will go far, fast, and good for you.